different from Islamic culture.
the first group from advicement:
All Muslims who traveled to Western countries have moved from an Islamic environment to an environment that is culturally different from Islamic culture.
Therefore, there is a problem in raising children in an Islamic environment in this environment.
The best means to help parents raise their children in Western countries, America and Australia:
1- The family’s environment should be an Islamic environment in the home in which all Islamic aspects of prayer, fasting, and remembrances are present
2- It is easy for the child to learn two languages at the same time, so the child must learn the mother tongue spoken by the parents
“If the parents speak Urdu, the child must learn the Urdu language, and if his parents speak Arabic, he must learn Arabic,…. And so on
3- The child must learn the history of the country in which the parents grew up and understand the details of the history of the country of his parents very well
4- The family must travel to the mother country at least once a year so that the child becomes familiar with the country of his parents very well.
5- The child must get to know all his relatives from his cousins, aunts, uncles and aunts, and his cousins and cousins
the second group from advicements
6- The child must pray at least one prayer per week in the mosque, no matter how far from the house the mosque is
7- Participation in the programs and activities of the Islamic centers
8- After the spread of the Internet and technological progress, there are many online programs and the emergence of hundreds of Arabic
and online teaching sites where Arab teachers study.
9- The child begins to teach the Noble Qur’an “reading and understanding” at a young age until he becomes familiar with the Noble Qur’an,
whether in the Islamic centers next to the house or as we mentioned above, there are hundreds of programs in teaching
the Noble Qur’an online, Arabic language online,
and Islamic studies, all you have to do is open Google and write
A-learn quran online
B- learn Quran Online with tajweed
C- online Quran classes
And you will see some useful sites such as
10- You must choose for your child the good friend and stay away from bad friends, as the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, said:
“A man is upon the religion of his friend , so let one of you look at whom he befriends.” … English
the third group from advisements:
11- One of the important things for a child to master a sport is “to become a professional sport, not just to practice it.
”…Sport is one of the things that distracts the child from smoking and bad habits, and our master Omar,
may ALLAH be pleased with him, motivated some sports by saying, “Teach your children.” swimming and equestrian
12- Paying great attention to religious occasions, such as “Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha” and other religious occasions
13- The child must learn that the veil is the reason for her chastity and it is one of the rituals of religion
14- Parents should be aware of the most important suspicions about Islam that children may hear in their schools, so he answers some
of them and postpones some of them, for example:
Islam was spread by the sword
That Islam generates terrorists
The Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace, married more than four wives
15: Parents should always listen to their children and discuss everything with them
the fourth group:
16 – The child should have a specific and full program throughout the day and be busy all the time in useful things
17 – Parents should be role models for the child, and education should be practical, such as praying in front of him
18- Constant encouragement for all good deeds, for example, if a student memorizes a surah from the Qur’an, the parents reward the child for this memorization
19- Buy useful Islamic books for children and create an Islamic library at home filled with various Islamic books or buy pdf books from the Internet.
There are hundreds of Islamic websites that sell useful books online such as
17 – Parents should be role models for the child, and education should be practical, such as praying in front of him
18- Constant encouragement for all good deeds, for example, if a student memorizes a surah from the Qur’an,
the parents reward the child for this memorization
19- Buy useful Islamic books for children and create an Islamic library at home filled with various Islamic books
or buy pdf books from the Internet.
There are hundreds of Islamic websites that sell useful books online such as
20: Teach your children to do good by helping others and the poor, and to teach them that this is one of the things that Allah and His Messenger love
the fifth group
21- Teach your children the biography of the Prophet, may God bless him and grant him peace
22- Teach your children the biography of the Companions and imams such as Imam Abu Hanifa, Malik, Shafi’i, Ibn Hanbal and other imams
23- They must read the Qur’an and listen to the recitation daily.
24- The family must meet for food at least one meal a day
25- Not to watch bad movies that have distorted ideas
the sixth group
26- Avoid sending children to distant universities to live in university housing
This results in prolonged mixing with bad friends
27- It is necessary to be very careful about halal food, and for parents to completely avoid the use of any kind of taboo, such as cigarettes.
28- Establishing educational camps for the whole family to go to.
29- Training some children to deliver Friday sermons and lead Muslims in order to become leaders of Muslim communities.
30 – Encouraging children to marry early in order to preserve their religion and worldly life for them.
the seventh group
31- They must be encouraged to marry Muslim women and families known for their religion and morals.
32- Working to resolve family disputes by referring to the officials of the Islamic community, or the imam and preacher of the Islamic Centre.
33- Not attending dance parties, music and singing, and festivals of immorality, and forbidding children with wisdom from
going with the students of the Christian school to church on Sunday for any reason.
34- That parents supplicate all the time for their children.
He said: The Messenger of God – may God’s prayers and peace be upon him- said:
Three supplications will be answered without any doubt: the supplication of the oppressed, the supplication of the traveler,
and the supplication of a father for his child. This is first.
35- Trying to live in areas full of Muslim communities
the eighth group
36- Seeing and following up on the most important Islamic applications on the phone
37- Participation in all religious competitions held in mosques and Islamic centers or in online institutes, such as competitions
for memorizing the Qur’an or interpretation and others.
38 – Maintain your child’s personality without complaining about him all the time in his presence.
39 – Avoid hitting children, and the punishment should be by taking away something he loves
40- To make the child a responsible person
the ninth group
41- Instead of ordering him to do something, do this action in front of him, for example, pray in front
of him and then ask him to join you in prayer.
42- To select the YouTube channels that are useful to him and listen to them
43- Share your child’s interests and discuss them
44- Revise the Qur’an with him at least three days a week
45- Create an award with each achievement related to memorizing a hadith
the tenth group
46- Answer all the questions he asks in front of the parents, such as Where is Allah?
47- Develop the child’s skills in different aspects such as learning different languages or programming
48- Understand the child’s tendencies and talents and fully support him in his preferences
49- Constant praise in the country where the parents are from, praise of the culture in which the parents grew up,
and praise of the people who live there so that the child becomes closer to his original culture
50- Know that understanding the Qur’an, following the Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him,
and understanding Islamic studies in general is the fortress that will protect your children from the surrounding environment,
and it will make him a Muslim who preserves his religion and is ready for the Day of Resurrection
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