Prophet Ibrahim (Abraham): Khalil Allah — The Friend of God (UK British Muslim Guide)

Khalil Allah — the Friend of God

Prophet Ibrahim (Abraham, peace be upon him) is the prophet whom Allah Himself called Khalil Allah — the Friend of God (Quran 4:125). He is the patriarch of the three great monotheistic traditions: through his son Ismaʿil came the Arab line and ultimately Prophet Muhammad ﷺ; through his son Ishaq came the line of the Israelite prophets including Musa and ʿIsa ﷺ. For British Muslim families, he is the model par excellence of pure Tawhid — a man who, alone in his society, recognised the Creator and refused every form of idolatry.

This guide tells his story from the Quran's own account, identifies the major events of his life, and draws out lessons for British Muslim families teaching their children about the prophet whose name appears in every Muslim's daily prayer.

Ibrahim's birth and early life

Ibrahim ﷺ was born in ancient Mesopotamia (modern Iraq), in the region historically called Ur of the Chaldeans. The Quran tells us his father was named Azar (Quran 6:74), an idol-maker for the local temple. The dominant religion of his society was the worship of celestial bodies — the moon, the stars, the sun — alongside carved idols.

From a young age, Ibrahim questioned this religion. The Quran preserves his reasoning in Surah Al-Anʿam (6:75–79): he watched a star rise and thought "This is my Lord", but when it set he said "I do not love things that disappear". He watched the moon rise and made the same statement, then the same when the moon set. He watched the sun rise — the greatest visible body — and again declared "This is my Lord, this is greater". When the sun set, he turned away from celestial worship altogether and declared:

﴾إِنِّي وَجَّهْتُ وَجْهِيَ لِلَّذِي فَطَرَ السَّمَاوَاتِ وَالْأَرْضَ حَنِيفًا وَمَا أَنَا مِنَ الْمُشْرِكِينَ﴿
"Indeed, I have turned my face toward He who created the heavens and the earth, inclining toward truth, and I am not of those who associate others with Allah."

(Quran 6:79). E-aalim is an online platform and institute. The E-aalim online institute teaches the holy Quran, Arabic and Islamic studies online.

The confrontation with his father and his people

Ibrahim ﷺ confronted his father respectfully, asking why he worshipped what could neither hear, see nor benefit him. The Quran preserves his exact dialogue (Surah Maryam 19:42–48). His father responded in anger and threatened to stone him if he did not stop. Ibrahim replied with prophetic dignity: "Peace be upon you. I will ask forgiveness for you from my Lord."

Ibrahim then took action against the temple idols themselves. Surah Al-Anbiya 21:57–67 describes how, when the people left for a festival, Ibrahim broke all the idols except the largest, then placed the axe in the hand of the largest. When the people returned and demanded who had done this, he said calmly: "Ask the largest one — perhaps it did this." The trap was set. The people had to admit that the idols could neither act nor speak. The conclusion was inescapable, and Ibrahim pressed it: "Do you then worship besides Allah that which does not benefit you at all and does not harm you?"

The fire

The people, unable to refute his argument, resorted to violence. They built a great fire and threw Ibrahim into it. The Quran preserves Allah's command to the fire:

﴾قُلْنَا يَا نَارُ كُونِي بَرْدًا وَسَلَامًا عَلَىٰ إِبْرَاهِيمَ﴿
"We said, 'O fire, be coolness and safety for Ibrahim.'"

(Quran 21:69)

The fire became cold and safe. Ibrahim walked out unharmed. This is one of the great miracles of the prophetic line, and one of the moments most beloved in Muslim memory. The online tutors and teachers at E-aalim are dedicated, efficient, highly qualified, experienced Arabic native speaker al-Azhar graduates.

Migration, Sarah and Hajar

After the failure of his daʿwah in his homeland, Ibrahim ﷺ migrated with his wife Sarah and his nephew Luṭ ﷺ — first to Syria-Palestine, then to Egypt, then back to Syria. The Quran preserves the dignity of Sarah, his first wife — see our Sarah profile.

Sārah remained childless for many years. She gave Ibrahim her Egyptian maidservant Hajar so that he might have a son. Hajar bore him Ismaʿil. Years later, by Allah's miracle, Sarah herself bore Ibrahim a second son, Ishaq, in her old age. From these two sons came the two great prophetic lineages of human history.

Hajar and Ismaʿil in the valley of Makkah

Allah commanded Ibrāhīm to leave Hajar and the infant Ismaʿil in the barren valley of Makkah — a place with no water, no people, no shelter. The classical narration preserved by Bukhari describes Hajar's question to her husband: "Did Allah command you to do this?" When he confirmed, she replied: "Then He will not abandon us."

When their water ran out, Hajar ran between the hills of Safa and Marwah seven times searching for water — the act commemorated by every Muslim performing Hajj or ʿumrah today as the saʿy. Allah caused the spring of Zamzam to gush forth at the infant Ismaʿil's feet. The water still flows in Makkah today, fourteen centuries later, drunk by hundreds of millions of pilgrims annually.

From Hajar and Ismaʿil came the Arab tribes who eventually populated the Hijaz, and from those tribes came, fourteen generations later, the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ.

The great test — the sacrifice of Ismaʿil

When Ismaʿil reached an age to walk and work alongside his father, Ibrahim ﷺ saw in a dream that he was sacrificing his son. He told Ismaʿil. The Quran preserves the son's response (Surah As-Saffat 37:102): "O my father, do as you are commanded. You will find me, if Allah wills, of the steadfast."

Both submitted. As Ibrahim laid his son down to fulfil the divine command, Allah called out: "O Ibrahim, you have fulfilled the vision." A ram was sent in Ismaʿil's place. The act is commemorated by every Muslim every year at ʿEid al-Adḥa — the second of the two Eids, marked by the slaughter of an animal in remembrance of Ibrahim's submission.

The building of the Kaʿbah

Ibrāhīm ﷺ and his son Ismaʿil built (or rebuilt) the Kaʿbah in Makkah — the cubical building at the centre of the Sacred Mosque towards which every Muslim turns five times a day in prayer. The Quran preserves their duʿaʾ as they built (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:127–128): "Our Lord, accept this from us. Indeed, You are the Hearing, the Knowing."

This single act of obedience — two men in a desolate valley building a small structure — is the physical centre of the global daily prayer of 1.9 billion Muslims today.

His role in Muslim daily worship

Every Muslim in every prayer recites — in the second sitting of every salah — the Ibrahimic du'a: "O Allah, send blessings on Muhammad and the family of Muhammad, as You sent blessings on Ibrahim and the family of Ibrahim." No other prophet has this place in our daily worship. Prophet Muḥammad ﷺ asked his Companions about the proper form of sending blessings on him, and the Sunnah he taught them places his own name and Ibrahim's together as a single act of devotion. The online learners and students at E-aalim are kid, adult, male and female Muslims living mainly in the European countries and the USA.

Lessons for British Muslim families

• Tawhid is reachable through reason. Ibrahim did not have a prophet to teach him; he reasoned his way from celestial worship to monotheism by observing the cycle of stars, moon and sun. British Muslim teenagers today, raised in a secular and scientific environment, can reach the same conclusion through the same kind of careful observation of creation.

• Family ties do not override truth. Ibrahim honoured his father with respect but did not compromise on the worship of false gods. British Muslim children navigating non-Muslim relatives or family pressures to hide their faith can take direct guidance from his model.

• Allah does not abandon those who trust Him. Hajar's words — "Then He will not abandon us" — are the foundation of Muslim tawakkul. British Muslim mothers raising children in difficult circumstances have direct prophetic precedent.

• The greatest acts of devotion involve giving up what we love most. Ibrahim was asked to give up his son. British Muslim parents can ask: what would I give up if Allah asked it of me — my career, my image, my comfort?

• Building takes generations. The Kaʿbah Ibrahim built has been the qiblah of every Muslim for fourteen centuries. Genuine institutional building serves generations not yet born.

Frequently asked questions

Where to go next

For more on Ibrahim's family, see our guides on his wife Sarah, the Egyptian connection through Maria the Copt, and the Quranic narrative of Ibrahim and the Four Birds. For the broader prophetic line, see our guides on Prophet Nuḥ, Prophet Musa, and Prophet ʿIsa. To study the prophetic stories one-to-one with an Al-Azhar-graduate teacher, book a free trial lesson.